Red Flags: Is He Playing You?
If you’re wondering whether a guy’s intentions are genuine or just a ploy to get you into bed, watch out for these signs:
– He’s all about physical touch: If his interactions are mostly about touching, kissing, or making out, it might be a sign he’s prioritizing physical intimacy over emotional connection.
– Inconsistent communication: He texts or calls sporadically, only reaching out when he wants to meet up or have sex.
– No real interest in your life: He doesn’t ask about your day, goals, or interests, showing a lack of genuine investment in getting to know you.
– Avoids deep conversations: He dodges meaningful talks, keeping interactions light and superficial.
– Only plans meetups at night: He always suggests meeting up late at night, usually ending in a hookup.
– No effort to meet your friends or family: He’s hesitant to meet people important to you, indicating he’s not serious about a relationship.
– Flattery is over-the-top: He showers you with excessive compliments or gifts, trying to win you over quickly.
– He’s vague about his feelings: He avoids talking about his emotions or what he wants from the relationship.
– You feel used: You often feel like he’s using you for sex or convenience, leaving you feeling drained.
– He’s hot and cold: One minute he’s all in, the next he’s distant – keeping you guessing and invested.
Trust your instincts. If you feel like something’s off, it probably is. Prioritize your self-worth and don’t settle for being someone’s temporary fix.
